Menangani sifat marah

IMAM Syafie ada menegaskan: “Marah adalah satu di antara panah syaitan yang mengandungi racun. Oleh itu hindarilah ia agar kamu dapat menewaskan syaitan dan bala tenteranya.”

Apabila marah dituruti, situasi ini akan membakar kebaikan seperti api membakar kayu dan tiada yang tertinggal kecuali debu. Bagi menghilangkan perasaan marah ada beberapa panduan yang boleh diikuti, iaitu:

1. Perlu berasa malu dengan Allah atas segala tindakan kita. Allah memerhatikan segala tindakan dan sikap biadab kita.

2. Apabila datang perasaan hendak marah, ingatlah kita ini hanya manusia yang hina.

3. Banyakkan berdiam diri dan berdoa kepada Allah supaya Allah selamatkan kita daripada sifat marah.

4. Hendaklah ingat kesan daripada sifat marah. Keadaan ini mungkin membawa kepada permusuhan dan balas dendam daripada orang yang kita marahi.

5. Cuba bayangkan betapa buruknya rupa kita ketika marah. Sifat ini lebih buruk daripada perlakuan seekor haiwan apabila kita dalam keadaan marah.

6. Apabila datang perasaan marah, banyakkan membaca istighfar kerana marah itu datang daripada syaitan.

7. Apabila marah sedang memuncak, ambillah wuduk kerana wuduk dapat menenangkan api kemarahan yang sedang membara.

8. Jika marah tidak dapat hilang dengan melakukan perkara seperti di atas, hendaklah tidur. Hal ini dapat meredakan perasaan marah apabila kita bangun dari tidur nanti.

9. Tauhid kita perlu tepat. Setiap sesuatu itu datang daripada Allah dan akan kembali kepada Allah. Kenapa kita perlu marah?

10. Apabila kita bersalah, kita tidak suka orang memarahi kita. Begitu juga dengan orang lain yang melakukan kesilapan, tidak suka dimarahi, sebalik ditegur secara baik.

11. Satu cara lagi, apabila marah datang, sedangkan kita berdiri, duduklah. Apabila duduk, bersandarlah. Insya-Allah marah akan mula reda.

HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with,
people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.
Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.

MERDEKA! MERDEKA! MERDEKA!

SELAMAT ULANG TAHUN KEMERDEKAAN YANG KE 53

KEMERDEKAAN merupakan salah satu nikmat Allah yang dianugerahkan kepada manusia. Oleh hal yang demikian itu, kita wajib mensyukuri atas nikmat kurniaan Allah itu kerana kita diberi kesempatan menyambut kemerdekaan diri dan negara ke-53 dalam suasana yang penuh aman, damai dan sejahtera.

Menginsafi akan nikmat yang dianugerahi Allah s.w.t kepada kita dengan pelbagai kekayaan hasil bumi, kemudahan infrastruktur, pendidikan, pekerjaan dan lain-lainnya, maka eloklah kita merenung diri sendiri dan bertanya: Apakah sumbangan kita terhadap agama, bangsa dan negara selepas 53 tahun negara kita mencapai kemerdekaan?

Sekiranya kita menyedari akan hakikat kemerdekaan sebagai titik permulaan terhadap kebebasan dalam erti yang sebenar-benarnya, maka sewajarnya kita bersyukur akan nikmat Allah s.w.t sebagaimana firman-Nya yang bermaksud:

“Dan (ingatlah mereka wahai Muhammad) ketika Nabi berkata kepada kaumnya: “Wahai kaumku! Kenanglah nikmat Allah (yang diberikan) kepada kamu ketika ia menjadikan dalam kalangan kamu beberapa orang Nabi, dan ia menjadikan kamu bebas merdeka (setelah kamu diperhambakan oleh Firaun dan orang-orangnya) dan ia memberikan kepada kamu barang yang tidak pernah diberikan kepada seseorang pun dari umat-umat (yang ada pada masa itu).” (Al-Maidah: 20)

Intipati daripada seruan Nabi Musa a.s yang menyeru bangsanya mengingati nikmat kemerdekaan yang dianugerahkan oleh Allah s.w.t agar kita memperbaiki diri akan kebebasan kita daripada penjajahan mental dan moral oleh kolonial dan neokolonialisme.

Dalam konteks kesyukuran terhadap nikmat Allah ini, secara realitinya kita dapat bandingkan dengan negara lain seperti yang terpapar di kaca televisyen, internet dan akhbar jelas tergambar akan pelbagai bala bencana dialami manusia – banjir, gempa bumi, kemarau, runtuhan salji, letupan gunung berapi dan peperangan dialami di negara-negara lain itu.

http://ummatanwasatan.net/2008/08/syukuri-nikmat-kemerdekaan/

Lagu Kegemaran

Ditujukan kepada semua yang menghargai erti kasih sayang......

Penyanyi: Ruth Sahanaya
Tajuk Lirik Lagu: Kaulah Segalanya

Mungkin hanya Tuhan
Yang tahu segalanya
Apa yang ku inginkan
Di saat-saat ini

Kau tak 'kan percaya
Kau selalu di hati
Haruskah ku menangis
Untuk mengatakan yang sesungguhnya

Kaulah segalanya bagi ku
Kaulah curahan hati ini
Tak mungkin ku melupakan mu
Tiada lagi yang ku harap
Hanya kau seorang

Kau tak 'kan percaya
Kau selalu di hati
Haruskah ku menangis
Untuk mengatakan yang sesungguhnya

Kaulah segalanya bagi ku
Kaulah curahan hati ini
Tak mungkin ku melupakan mu
Tiada lagi yang ku harap
Hanya kau seorang

Kaulah segalanya untuk ku
Kaulah curahan hati ini
Tak mungkin ku melupakan mu
Tiada lagi yang ku harap
Hanya kau seorang
Tiada lagi yang ku harap
Hanya kau seorang

Allah Maha Besar

TREES

I think that I shall never see
A poem lovely as a tree.
A tree whose hungry mouth is pressed
Against the earth's sweet flowing breast;
A tree that looks at God all day,
And lifts her leafy arms to pray;

A tree that may in Summer wear
A nest of robins in her hair;
Upon whose bosom snow has lain;
Who intimately lives with rain.

Poems are made by people like me,
But only God can make a tree.

TREES by: Joyce Kilmer (1886-1918)

A Quick Laugh For 5 Mins

Teacher: History is a very interesting subject. It tells you about what had happened in the past.

Student: Please teacher, I don't think I want to study history.

Teacher: Why?

Student: There is no future in it.

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Teacher : Ted, if your father has $10 and you ask him for $6, how much would your father still have?

Ted : $10.

Teacher : You don't know maths.

Ted : You don't know my father!

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Mother : David, come here.

David : Yes, mum?

Mother : You really disappoint me. Your results are getting worse.

David : But I will only get my report book tomorrow.

Mother : I know that. But I am going to Hong Kong tomorrow, so I am scolding you now.

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Father : Why did you fail your mathematics test?

Son : On Monday, teacher said 3+5=8

Father : So?

Son : On Tuesday, she said 4+4=8 And on Wednesday, she said 6+2=8. If she can't make up her mind, how do I know the right answer?

---

A mother and son were doing dishes while the father and daughter were watching TV in the living room. Suddenly, there was a loud crash of breaking plates, then complete silence. The daughter turned to look at her father.

Daughter : It's mummy!

Father : How do you know?

Daughter : She didn't say anything.

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Girl: Do you love me?

Boy: Yes Dear

Girl: Would you die for me?

Boy: No, mine is undying love

---

Man: How old is your father?

Boy: As old as me

Man: How can that be?

Boy: He became a father only when I was born

---

Waiter: I've stewed liver, boiled tongue and frog's leg.

Customer: Don't tell me your problems. Give me the menu card.

---

Teacher : Simon, your composition on 'My Dog' is exactly the same as your brother's. Did u copy his?

Simon : No, teacher, it's the same dog!

---

Father : Your teacher says she finds it impossible to teach you anything!

Son : That's why I say she's no good!

---

Teacher: 'Where were u born?'

Student: ' Singapore , Sir.'

Teacher: 'Which part?'

Student: 'All of me, Sir.'

---

A teacher was asking her class: 'What is the difference between 'unlawful' and 'illegal'?'

Only one hand shot up.

'Ok, answer, Joan' said the teacher.

''unlawful' is when u do something the law doesn't allow and 'illegal' is a sick eagle.'

---

Teacher: 'How come you do not comb your hair?'

Ah Kow: 'No comb, Sir.'

Teacher: 'Use your dad's then.'

Ah Kow: 'No hair, Sir.'

---

A boy came home from school with his exam results.

'What did u get?' asked his father.

'My marks are under water,' said the boy.

'What do u mean 'under water'?'

'They are all below 'C' (sea) level'

Menu kegemaran ramai di bulan puasa

Apabila tibanya bulan puasa, selera makan kita pun kadang-kadang berubah. Biasanya kita mencari kelainan dalam menyediakan juadah ketika berbuka. Makanan yang biasa kita makan pada bulan puasa biasanya kurang diambil ketika hari-hari biasa. Agaknya sebab itu ada orang berkata, apabila tiba bulan puasa habislah semua keladi, batang pisang dan daun-daun kayu dikutip orang. Itik juga terpaksa bekerja keras untuk menghasilkan telur kerana telur masin mendapat pasaran di luar jangkaan. Nasib baik puasa hanya sebulan sekali. Antara makanan yang menjadi pembuka selera ketika berbuka (terutamanya di utara) ialah:

1) Kurma ( yang ini sunat dimakan)
2) Sayur keladi ( rasanya seperti asam pedas. Memang mampu membuka selera)
3) Telur masin ( memang sedap dimakan dengan nasi yang panas-panas.)
4) Nasi ulam ( hanya bulan puasa sahaja ada dijual. Pelbagai ramuan ulam-ulaman digaul dengan nasi yang masih panas. Ditambah pula dengan ikan masin dan telur masin)
5)Murtabak (orang P.Pinang memang sinonim dengan makanan ini)
6) Gulai kawah ( akhir-akhir ini mendapat sambutan ramai.Bahan2nya ialah batang pisang dan daging di samping rempah ratus untuk menyediakan kari)
7) Minuman pelbagai warna juga menjadi pilihan ketika berbuka.
8) Agar-agar pelbagai warna dan rasa. Kalau malas hendak masak, boleh beli saja di bazar2.
9) Ikan gelama masam ( memang menyelerakan terutamanya jika digoreng bersama-sama bawang dan cili kering. Baunya pun sudah menyelerakan)
10) Acar buah ( rasanya yang masam-masam manis juga mampu menambat selera makan kita)

Ahakss...nampaknya hari ini fokus utama ialah makanan.

Red Bull: Antara minuman kegemaran para pemandu

RED BULL = SLOW DEATH

France & Denmark have banned it from the country...

RED BULL - slow death ...

Do NOT drink this drink anymore!!
Pay attention; read it all

As a public health safety, please pass on this email to all the contacts in your address book especially those with teenage children?

This drink is SOLD in all the supermarkets IN OUR country and our children ARE CONSUMING IT ON A TRIAL BASIS, It can be mortal.

RED BULL was created to stimulate the brains in people who are subjected to great physical force and in stress coma and never to be consumed like an innocent drink or soda pop.

RED BULL is the energizer DRINK that is commercialized world-wide with its slogan:'It increases endurance; awakens the concentration capacity and the speed of reaction, offers more energy and improves the mood. All this can be found in a can of RED BULL, the power drink of the millennium.

'RED BULL has managed to arrive at almost 100 countries worldwide. The RED BULL logo is targeted at young people and sportsmen, two attractive segments that have been captivated by the stimulus that the drink provides.

It was created by Dietrich Mateschitz, an industrialist of Austrian origin who discovered the drink by chance. It happened during a business trip to Hong Kong, when he was working at a factory that manufactured toothbrushes.

The liquid, based on a formula that contained caffeine and taurine, caused a rage in that country. Imagine the grand success of this drink in Europe where the product still did not exist, besides it was a superb opportunity to become an entrepreneur.
BUT THE TRUTH ABOUT THIS DRINK IS ANOTHER THING:

FRANCE and DENMARK have just prohibited it as a cocktail of death, due to its vitamin components mixed with GLUCURONOLACTONE' , a highly dangerous chemical, which was developed by the United States Department of Defense during the sixties to stimulate the moral of the troops based in VIETNAM, which acted like a hallucinogenic drug that calmed the stress of the war.

But their effects in the organism were so devastating, that it was discontinued, because of the high index of cases of migraines, cerebral tumors and diseases of the liver that was evident in the soldiers who consumed it.

And in spite of it, in the can of RED BULL you can still find as one of its components: GLUCURONOLACTONE, categorized medically as a stimulant.. But what it does not say on the can of ,RED BULL are the consequences of its consumption, and that has forced us to place a series of WARNINGS:

1. It is dangerous to take it if you do not engage in physical exercise afterwards, since its energizing function accelerates the heart rate and can cause a sudden attack.

2. You run the risk of undergoing a cerebral hemorrhage, because RED BULL contains components that dilute the blood so that the heart utilizes less energy to pump the blood, and thus be able to deliver physical force with less effort being exerted.

3. It is prohibited to mix RED BULL with alcohol, because the mixture turns the drink into a " Deadly Bomb " that attacks the liver directly, causing the affected area never to regenerate anymore.

4. One of the main components of RED BULL is the B12 vitamin, used in medicine to recover patients who are in a coma; from here the hypertension and the state of excitement which is experienced after taking it, as if you were in a drunken state.

5. The regular consumption of RED BULL triggers off symptoms in the form of a series of irreversible nervous and neuronal diseases.

CONCLUSION: It is a drink that should be prohibited in the entire world as when it is mixed with alcohol it creates a TIME BOMB for the human body, mainly between innocent adolescents and adults with little experience.